The single ladies (and gentlemen)

Everyone has experienced this state of being single

but there is a bunch of reasons to why they (we) remain so.

1.       Juvenility

Youthfulness has been blamed many a times

 for making us ineligible to comprehend matters of the adults.  

OH BOY.

Youth is also the reason for many of our restrictions. 

OH BOY.

2.       7 B’s aka Books Before Boys cos Boys Bring Babies

Lol. Please imagine an “Ana” instead of a “Harry” in the picture.

I was too tired. o_O

OH BOY.

3. Lack of self-esteem

Sometimes it ain’t the shortcomings of how we look.

Often, how we carry our selves matter more.

We often see beautiful girls date a so-and-so looking guy.

Some of us might say

“Oh she’s gotten nuts”

Or “Yea he might be filthy rich”.

But those aren’t the case sometimes.

Or most of the times.

The truth is he carries himself so well that he makes her feel good about herself.

No one wants to date a negative-vibed person anyway, right?

 No? What, you don’t think so?

You just flattered a heart by disagreeing.

Well, enjoy you disagreeing people.

Vc”,

OH BOY.

4. Self-conceitedness

As much as there are people who lack confidence, there are those who overflow of it.

He’s all that or she’s all that.

He and she is too good for you.

Actaually, this is not a healthy attitude.

Love should have no standards.

That’s because love is not selfish.

We should be ready to love others as we love our self.

I think. :o)

5. Afraid heart

There are people who are afraid of getting themselves hurt

And having their hearts broken.

Love for them is:

Scaaryyyy.

6. Focus

Some people are too focused on what they do

that they find no time for love.

7. Reservedness

The roots of this is religion.

They want to settle with the person God fated for them.

These people do their best to stay true to their religion

So they may please God.

La ilaha ill Allah!

8. The need for time

Some people loved, broke their hearts, and needed time to recover and reflect.

9. Wordly desire

This encompasses peer pressure, the want to be cool, the need for attention, the want to belong, etc.

Just like this:

End of list :o)